Relational Crisis

You should not condone every palpable slip your partner is perpetrating upon you. It is not an androgynous identity that you are endowed with. Don't lose your own self in pursuit of compassion. Sometimes it is better to moult the slough of hypocrisy and let the world subsist on that. Your relationship with her is symbiotic, not unidimensional. Even if you postulate the fact that she loves you immensely, still, there should be a space for your own individuality, your own private space. There is no tangible covenant imposed upon you that you have to bow low before her everytime on her every whim. Personality is like a log of wood that you yourself have to whittle into a proper shape and prestige. You don't have to expound to her all the times that you are not there to celebrate her fancies. If it goes on like this, today, tomorrow, or any other day in the near future, this fragile contact called relationship is going to founder. Don't get bothered about these frivolities and home in on your career, your work, your dreams. Be the protégé of dedication and determination. The incandescent future can catch at many such bees. This anomaly ought not to impact your affect.